Yes, this, all of it… (I love when people blog my thoughts for me) 🙂
1- When I share my feelings and ideas about being an adopted person, I’m not whining or complaining. I am telling you the truth as I see it because I live it.
2- Please take me seriously when I discuss adoption.
3- I would rather know the truth, (about any topic), than be told a nice little “story” that will make me “happy”. Don’t think that I won’t know the difference.
4- Loss of any kind really, really sucks, plain and simple.
5- I’m not saying that my feelings are any deeper, better, worse or lighter than yours, but they are MY feelings. Please acknowledge.
6- Many times, especially socially, there’s a veil separating me from everyone else, and I will forever wonder if that veil-feeling is a result of my being adopted / different from most everyone else.
7- I no longer fear being rejected or replaced. I know…
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